Therefore, I'm so grateful to have seen these words of wisdom (posted above) on Chris Deatherage's Facebook Page, and hopefully they will give me the strength to stop reaching out to no avail; for doing so causes deep pain and brings up all my abandonment issues.
Besides, I'm usually content with my own company, especially if I have a book to read. I highly recommend to anyone who keeps getting no response when they reach out to someone to STOP, don't chase them, it's too painful.
You can always read a book instead, and you'll never feel alone, especially if the book is part of the Words In Our Beak series (seen below),
which were edited and formatted by Chris. Here's the purchase info: